A few months ago I went out to a suburban club. I danced with a bunch of guys, my girlfriends I was there with and had a grand old time generally. However, on 3 seperate occasions I had an identical conversation with men.
I had told each of these men that I was married (their actions indicated to me that they wanted to do more then dance).
They then asked me why I was out on my 'own' (even though I was with 3 girlfriends). When I answered with something like - "Because I want to be" (Incredulous look, pissed off tone).
They then said "If you were mine I wouldn't let you out by yourself"".
The tone was fully intended as a compliment, like if I was theirs they couldn't bare to have me unaccompanied by their manly selves...
Oh vomit. It shows how fucked up things are when men think this a good thing to say to a woman.